Wednesday 26 May 2010

Is the Gov really helping SG citizen? I am sorry but I have to say... No...

I went to marina bay sand for a company event today. It was a really nice place. You don’t feel like you were in Singapore when you were there. Felt so much like we were somewhere in Paris or London.

The buildings and shops are still under construction. At 10plus am, there were already people lining up for the casino. Not sure if they were locals or tourist but frankly they didn’t looked like tourist though.

Remember how many jobs did the government promise us for the opening of these two IRs? And creating more vacancies is one of the main reasons to it. Our event was held in a huge convention hall. The chairs and stage were in front, buffets spread and other facilities at the back. While I explored that place during the food times, I noticed that, many buffet servers and even the toilet cleaner are China Chinese.

Are Singaporeans really unwilling to work for IR where they are able to get a good salary package (think of the charges they charge for each Singaporean to go into the casino and the fees they earn for each large convention, the rents they earn from the big brands in the malls, the money they saved from building Marina Bay Sand with the cheapest construction proposal and finally the income tax contributed by the Singaporeans.) IRs are just beautiful outside but rotten in the core? Having to say this, you might want to enjoy more of IRs free facilities like the wash rooms and the air con, etc. They are the money you pay for income taxes.

Are we being exploit in an openly manner? Gov lengthened our retirement age, asked us to upgrade our skills and improve our productivities but employ cheaper workers like the China Chinese where they were paid like $600/month. Which these actions indirectly tell us that we only worth that much for that kind of job?

And ‘force’ those gray hairs who usually have some pain in the knees or gets tired easily due to old age, to work long hours and earn only $300-400/month for collecting the heavy utensils in food courts and markets? Why can’t they take over that task for washing the toilets or mopping the floors in the malls where there are always air cons blasting onto their face for that decent pay of $800-900/month?

If you were to ask this question to a Gov official, they will definitely push the fault to the agents, vendors or the private employers who abuse the MOM rules. And the employers will say that they need younger workers who can provide more productivity. But why are they getting the job that is more relaxing and the gray hairs with tougher job and yet lesser pay? The employers need to look into the welfare of the foreign workers and also the integrity in putting gray hairs in tougher, lesser pay jobs.

As Singaporean, we are fated to be a mute in our benefits and say. We need to be heard and feel appreciated for staying put in this country. I love Singapore but not so much on the overcrowding, unfair treatment and everything ‘under control’ portion.

If the emperor is reluctant to walk the street and feel what the commoners are facing but focuses only on how much money he is going to make. The empire will forever be a city of strangers. No sense of belongings, no progress on democratization or will this city’s prosperity last peacefully.

Friday 14 May 2010

情难了。。。

Have been talking to a friend out of a problem in romance recently. She has been in love for this man for almost two years but they still weren’t bgf. She was quite troubled over it and I emphasized on his bad qualities, trying to talk my friend out of it.

She then told me. She couldn’t force herself to only focus on his bad qualities and slowly she listed his good qualities one by one... and explained what have caused his bad qualities and such...

Suddenly, I fell into deep thoughts for my ex.... How shameful... I actually started to miss him badly... but why should I? How disgraceful... I think of his good qualities... but why should I? How humiliating...

I always thought that I have already let go... or did I just hide him in tiny corner of my heart? I didn't dare to face it? Haven’t the scar been healed? Haven’t I already let go? Sadness wrapped round my heart today and refused to disperse... Pain... came back and refused to wear off….

Will he ever understand how much I have suffered? Will he know that right now, I am still suffering?
情难了,情难了。。。

Tuesday 11 May 2010

What is the initial reason girls go for brazilian waxing?

Its been almost one year since I started this brazilian biz. Having to brazilian wax for more than 50 girls now... my clients age differ from as young as 18 to 43, with most girls at their early 20s who are still schooling in polies and uni.

In my communication with my clients, the question that they like to ask me the most is for the reason why I want to do this (BW biz). Most of them were amazed by the varieties of things I can do and some were shocked to know about the ugly secrets of beauty industries that I have shared with them.

Whereas for me, I always like to ask them for the reason to do waxing. Out of 10 girls, almost 8.5 or 9/10 do it for the seek of their SO-to surprise them! Venus, always do things for the seek of Mars. But will Mars return our love in this way too?

Sunday 9 May 2010

可笑的回忆。。。

Senario: 惠萍她用吸管折了很多星星,不过还是填不满那玻璃罐。这个罐要送给朋友当结婚礼物。

我: 萍! 填不满吖!你要不要我橱里有1000颗吸管星星哦!你可以拿来填满噢!

惠萍:我才不要那负心汉折的星星咧!

我: 不对!当时他折给我的时后,他有爱我哦。所以那些星星是充满着幸福的!我在帮你省时又能把幸福的星星送给人哦!给你朋友幸福吖。。。。

想当年,These 1000 straw stars were done by my ex bf when he loved alot some... 10 yrs ago? I wonder if they have already turned yellow... placed in a dark corner which I dragged to pack/clear... To throw? or not to throw? No harm keeping but take up space though...